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Perhaps talking to someone that is NOT interested in making money off you (realtor, etc) and someone like a tax accountant, financial advisor or lawyer regarding your options. If you put this home into short sale, it will RUIN your credit, unless that is not a concern for you.
A short sale can take time. If you have been making your payments up until today, it may not be an option for you. First, you have to show your lender that you are unable to make payments. This might mean not making them for 3-4 months or longer. Just stopping and then asking for a short sale may not work. They might be able to prove that you CAN afford it.
I'm just saying to look at ALL your options, BEFORE turning it over to the wolves. It might mean providing more financial security for you and your family, all of whom will have to endure this process financially...and emotionally. Even your children, no matter how young. Everyone is affected.
I wish you much luck as losing a home is not easy. But think of it as any investment. Get out if its ruining your financial worth, but not so hastily that you drop like a brick. There are ways to minimize the impact.
Good luck and thanks for your service to America.
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